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Homeschool 101: FAQ and Answers (Part 1)

Homeschooling is growing in popularity! Your most frequently asked questions about homeschooling get answered here:

FAQ 1: Is it legal?

There are only a few places in the world where it is, in fact, illegal to homeschool your children. And only a few where it is impractical to homeschool. But generally, homeschooling, in one form or another, is legal just about everywhere.

I’m fortunate to live in an area where homeschooling is not only completely legal but also completely without regulation. Please check with your local laws before starting.

The best place to get truthful information is from a local homeschooling support group. Be careful about talking to the public school or school board. Because it is not in their interest for you to pull your children out of the school system, they may not give you accurate information about the legalities and regulations of homeschooling in your area.

You can also check out HSLDA’s website in your country for specifics.

FAQ 2: How do I teach them?

That is really a broad question. The specifics of your curriculum, teaching style and structure of your homeschool will depend on a lot of factors.

But generally, since you, as their parent, taught your child how to walk, talk, feed and dress themselves, use the bathroom, and the basic rules of interacting with others, you can totally teach your child to read, write, add, subtract, or whatever academic skill or information they need to learn.

You know your child best. And you were your child’s first teacher. You are their best teacher!

FAQ 3: What about testing?

For many people, homeschooling is actually about avoiding the many standardized tests that are increasing in mainstream school systems. For others, standardized testing is a useful tool.

Normed tests are available for purchase privately, through various publishers and curriculum sellers. And they may also be available through your public school system. Please check with your local school board or homeschool support group for more information on that.

For assessment purposes, you can certainly test your own children. The curriculum you choose may include quizzes, tests and assessments. There are also many free or for-purchase placement and assessment tests available online.

FAQ 4: What about socialization?

Homeschoolers get asked this a lot. We even make jokes about it! Again, the answer is “it depends”. It really depends on what you mean by the word “socialization”.

If socialization is means the development of social skills:

  • the ability to interact with others politely and respectfully,
  • to handle difficult people and different opinions without inappropriate emotional outbursts,
  • to conduct oneself in public as civilized and well-mannered;

then homeschooling is actually ideal.

Homeschooled children benefit from:

  •  great modeling (through their parents/guardians);
  • direct and indirect immediate teaching, correction and feedback (because parents tend to insist on good manners);
  • and the opportunity to interact with people of all ages and lifestyle choices.

Most homeschoolers aren’t going to be restricted to an age-segregated environment, with drastically different rules than real life. They also won’t have the intense pressure to conform.

Homeschooled children live in the real world, not the artificial one created by the institutional school classroom.

If socialization means the opportunity to interact with age-similar peers, again, homeschooling is ideal. In fact, homeschoolers, with the flexibility that homeschooling offers, have a much greater opportunity to interact with others, similarly aged or not.

Whether its being out and about with their parents while they run errands or interacting at libraries, pools, parks and playgrounds, homeschooled children get all the interaction that the parents choose to arrange.

Homeschooling is flexible.

We aren’t spending hours after school on homework, so our evenings are much freer for those extracurricular activities. There are great options in the community such as sports, dance, gymnastics, Lego club, 4H, Scouts, youth group, music/art lessons, drama club, or anything else that may be available in the community.

Also, we aren’t restricted to school hours, so we can also have special opportunities during the day. Many areas have active homeschool coops and support groups. These offer their own classes, playdates and interaction opportunities.

Personally, it would be easy for us to end up out every night of the week with a class or activity! Sometimes we homeschoolers run the risk of being out too often. We can forget that we actually need to be home, to do school.

FAQ 5: How do you stand your kids all day?

Some people claim that I must have some kind of superhuman patience to deal with my children all day, every day. Trust me, I’m not a supermom. My kids squabble and fight just like every other group of siblings.  They get mouthy, rebellious and disobedient at times too. However, these are parenting issues. And fortunately, they aren’t exaggerated by the influence of public school.

Consider this: a school-age child spends roughly 5 hours a day being told to

  • sit down and be quiet,
  • concentrate on their school work,
  • stop fidgeting,
  • stop talking with their classmates,
  • and they even have to ask permission to use the bathroom!

Is it any wonder that by the time they get home they are ready to explode? They are exhausted, stir crazy, emotionally stressed, hungry and overstimulated!

By contrast, my homeschooled children can change positions as needed, and get up and move around as they want. They can use the bathroom whenever its necessary without the indignity of having to ask. We take frequent breaks. We eat snacks whenever we are hungry. And my kids ask all the questions they want, and they don’t have to wait (at least not often!).

There’s less stress, less anxiety and less pressure. The little fights and fits that do come up are typical parenting issues, and worked out quickly.

FAQ 6: How will I know what to teach them?

WorldBook offers a great overview of a typical course of study for every grade and age. Or you can get my personal scope and sequence.

Actual curriculum can be purchased online, from a local store if available, or at a homeschooling convention or vendor’s fair.

There are tons of options, and you can even create your own, if you desire.

You can use an all-in-one planned curriculum, or mix and match subjects to suit your child’s learning style, academic level and interest. You can even choose to forgo curriculum entirely and learn through other methods.

Read about the specifics on educational philosophies and homeschool methods, along with curriculum options.

Just know that there are lots and lots of options here.

FAQ 7: How do I start?

This depends on your jurisdiction and the legalities.

If you are a parent of preschool children, you probably don’t have to do anything in particular. Simply create a loose plan of what and how you want to teach your children.

If you are a parent of children over the compulsory school age (somewhere between age 6-8) or have children already in school, you will need to withdraw them from school. The specifics will vary from place to place. But generally you’ll want to send a letter of withdrawal or intent to homeschool to your local school as well as your school board. And you should get a copy of all school records to date, including test scores and any special notifications (IEP, special education plans, behavioural notices/plans, etc).

If you are pulling your children out of school, it is highly recommend to take the time to “deschool“. This is a term veteran homeschoolers use to describe the process of adusting from a public school mentality to the lifestyle and flexibility of homeschooling.  For details on the specifics of how and why to deschool, check out this post.

No matter how old your children are, there are certain steps that are recommended before beginning this process. You need the what and how to teach. And you’ll want to set up and gather the supplies you need beforehand.

The preparation is crucial to your chances of a successful year. At the same time, don’t get so tied to your plans that you forget to enjoy the process!

Steps to beginning include:

  1. Observation
  2. Choose priorities
  3. Decide on an approach
  4. Figure out a method
  5. Shop/create curriculum
  6. Plan out your day/week/term/year.
  7. Gather supplies.
  8. Happy Homeschooling!

Is it worth it?

From a veteran homeschooler to the curious beginner: homeschooling is more of a lifestyle choice than an educational one.

It’s not necessarily easier than public school (though it might be less frustrating). It is, however, incredibly worthwhile!

You can have a greater connection to your children. As a homeschooling parent, you can protect them and give them more security. You can even tailor their education —  challenge their strengths and support their weaknesses.

And the flexibility for special occasions and once-in-a-lifetime opportunities mean no more having to pay peak-time prices for those family vacations!

You already have your reasons for not wanting to put or leave your children in public school. No matter what they are, homeschooling will achieve beyond those reasons, if you are committed to the long-term. I wish you well in deciding what is the best fit for your family.

Need help getting started homeschooling?

Happy Homeschooling!

About RaisingRoyalty

Single mom of 6, homeschooling and working from home. I've survived everything life threw at me, now I'm finding a way to thrive. This is my real life story.

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